Secret Language of Feelings with Margaret Lynch
March 23, 2010 by April Davis
Filed under Emotion Specific, Interviews, Video Tap Alongs
In these two videos, Margaret Lynch will teach us how to take advantage of our feelings and to learn the secrets that they are trying to tell us.
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this was so unbelievably amazing, margaret. thank you from the bottom of my heart. you have given me the gift of clarity and “WOH-AH!” in these acute observations, i’m floored. now to pick myself up and tap away. thank you again.
Thank you, how intelligent and insightful.
I was speachless. Margaret you are amazing.
I don’t know if you realize it, but this a million dollar worth information you gave to the entire community of EFT.
These are Highly Intelligent and yet so Clear & Logical insights.
Such an Incredible Eye-Opennner over Hidden Aspects behind emotions. And you covered so many different emotions. with these insights I believe anybody can fix lots of things in themselves.
Tip for the website maybe: A section Must See or Highly Recommended.?
Thank you Margaret, thank you Jessica for this “full of wonders” website.
Great videos very insightful thank you .
Where do we get the cheat sheet from
Hit the nail on the proverbial head/s – I’d also like to get the cheat sheet, where do I find that?
Margaret
You are right on. This dovetails nicely with The Shadow Effect. Thanks so much.
I’ve done this wonderful tapalong several times and I have a question: I have suddenly tapped in to a lot of hate that was lying under the other emotions. What is the upside of hate and what could it be trying to tell me?
Hello all, Thank you for the wonderful comments! It is my honor to teach you all!
I wanted to respond to the question about tapping into hate. First of all…and this will sound shocking….when you tap into/uncover an emotion resident within you that is so heavy and dark, rejoice that there is a huge upside of energy and vibrational lift coming!
Hate (and even murderous rage) are completely of your lower self/lower chakras (which means unless you are a living saint, we all carry it) and it represent the raw, survival, life force energy of the lower chakras. It shows you how strong your raw survival desire is to totally be YOU! Because when someone would not let you, you felt rage, hate, anger. You wanted to scream and fight and struggle to be you, but back then, you could not.
When we are programmed to stuff these emotions we must also stuff the energy and instead people-please. So when we find and tap on to voice,honor and clear such powerfully negative emotion, a huge amount of stuck energy releases – energy of the lower chakras which in the light side is passion, desire, feeling!
This is energy that we never quite allow ourselves to feel and carry powerfully when we say with our minds, “nope, I do not feel hate, I will only acknowledge my upper chakra qualites and try to be all higher perspective, forgiveness and spirit.” We need both our lower chakras/lower self and our higher chakras/higher self to be our “core self” otherwise we don’t have the energy to actually live our life purpose here on planet earth. (again, unless you are a living saint)
So fear not the hate, honor that you have had the absolute fearlessness to acknowledge your humanity in recognizing you can feel it. Keep tapping to voice it, honor it and honor yourself and what you endured that created the “justified hate” (because it will feel justified at some level) When it is calmer, then ask it…yes ask the hate…what it is calling you to do, right now, in the present moment, in your life and relationships? What it is teaching you? what does it wants in the light?
***How are you still allowing others to not let you be you? How are you using your story to not quite own your power? The core of all negative emotion will always be not being you. These are difficult questions indeed.
Because the light side of hate is of course the ability to love, receive love and to forgive. How can you know what it is like to love, really love, unless you have known the deep absence of love through hate? How can you truly know forgiveness if you have never been deeply wounded enough to hate?
How can we truly love and accept ourselves when we carry self hatred? (remember outward hatred always covers inward hatred)
How can we truly know how BADLY we want to be WHO WE ARE unless someone, sometime prevented us from being WHO WE ARE and boy, did we hate it!
the experience of hate and CONSCIOUS application of love and acceptance to it (tapping does brilliantly) is a miraculous way, we non-saintly earthlings, get access to moments of living at the 4th level – the level of forgiveness – that saints live at and beyond.
Didn’t say it was easy, so tap on these issues with great compassion for yourself and the events that created hate, and don’t force the hate into something before it is ready.
Wow, you just can’t shut me up when it comes to hate! I am so passionate that that the goal is not to cleanse ourselves of hate, but to start where we are…human! with a lower self AND a higher self! this brings consciousness so we can make a choice in the present moment of whether we choose hate or to be our core self, which only loves.
I hope this is helpful!
XOXO
Margaret
Hi Margaret,
Thank you for a wonderful pep-talk, I feel uplifted by the possibilities of my hate now, this actually feels like a gift waiting to be unwrapped instead of something to be feared. What a beautiful way of looking at hate! I would never in a million years have guessed your answer to my question, the concept feels totally revolutionary to me.
With gratitude,
Pia
I think you are one of the most amazing geniuses! I love your videos. I’d seen this one a while ago and just re-did it and found how helpful it was with a previously undetected aspect to something really harmful that happened to me and my young son, who didn’t make it.
Thank you many times over.
As I’ve been clearing my lower chakras of a lot of issues the issue of hate and rage and violence has again come up and I had such help from this tapping. Since July when these feelings first surfaced, I’ve had so much happen emotionally that this time my tapping experience was totally different. Much deeper and more precise. I could actually get to concrete memories when I’ve been punished for being me and stopped from fighting back/defending myself. This is also not only on a personal level but I feel it to be a collective female issue. Thanks again for the tapping and the earlier feedback, it’s been very helpful, yet again!